Do you have blinders on when it comes to a certain person? Making them who you want them to be in your head is a good way to retain positive feelings about them, but are you fooling yourself? Try to be more open-minded about who they really are and you’ll see the entire person, not just the idealized being you’ve created. This will be a good experience, not a disappointing one. Seeing all sides of a person may be a rude awakening from a dream state, but you have to wake up sometime.