Someone or something—your partner, a potential partner, or maybe even your own emotions—defies your notions of how romance should be at the week’s outset. You can’t make it all fall into line through sheer force of will, but after Wednesday you can find a little peace, love, and understanding. Use this trio to help establish some new goals for your heart, ones that are a little more flexible (or even a little bit out there). If you’re reluctant to make a commitment this weekend, it’s very likely for a good reason. Listen to that instinct and tell them to be patient.