One of your friends or family members has been acting out of character lately, and it’s time to find out just what the heck is going on. Start a conversation, but be careful not to get to your point too quickly. They will only get defensive. If you ask them to give you their latest life update, the key information will be divulged soon enough. Chances are they are in a situation that you can help them with, so get ready to be their knight in shining armor.