What you’re attracted to on January 4 is intellect. The moon in your social eleventh house trines the intense Mercury-Pluto conjunction in your communication sector, inspiring you to discuss your loftiest and wildest ideas with a lover and fall in love with their mind.
However, by the fifth, the moon in your twelfth house of solitude forms a trine with Saturn and Jupiter in your fourth house of the home, inspiring you to simply be with a lover. No need to prove anything—staying in and cozying up is more than enough.
However, you might experience pushback from your lover by January 7. As the moon transits through Scorpio, it opposes testy Mars and unstable Uranus in your partnership sector, potentially creating discord in your relationship. Look to the source of the problem. If they don’t appreciate who you are when you’re simply being yourself, think about what that might mean.
Luckily, an opportunity to communicate fairly approaches you by the ninth when Venus in your talkative third house forms a trine with Mars in your harmonious seventh house, allowing you to clear the air. This could be a powerful opportunity for growth in your relationship.