Once you understand that a certain someone has disappointed you over and over again, you’ll finally see them for who they are. It could now become clear that they’re simply not the person you thought they were, and it’s time for you to admit it. When you accept them for who they are (warts and all), you’ll immediately feel less annoyed by their antics. Being held to a high standard doesn’t work for everyone. Some folks simply can’t rise to the challenge.