There is always a balance of power in any relationship. Someone is always calling the shots while the other person goes along with the plan. Who does what should be shifting back and forth regularly. If it’s not, then today is the day to bring that up. If you’re the one always making plans in one of your relationships, ask the other person to think of something for you two to do. And if you’re the one who always goes along with what someone else says, step up and offer some ideas.