If you’re working on starting or strengthening a romance, bear in mind that a whisper can help you get your message across a lot more effectively than a loud scream. Amplifying your voice won’t amplify their affection for you. In fact, it could have the opposite effect. If you want to get intimate with someone, you have to get more intimate in your tone and demeanor. Turning down the noise will, in actuality, help you turn up their interest in you.