A friend is telling you that they’re doing one thing but doing something else. Their duplicity is probably due to their fear that if you really knew what was going on, your feelings about them would change. But this is definitely not true. Don’t waste time being disappointed that they aren’t trusting you. Instead, get in contact with them and ask point-blank about what’s really going on. You need to reach out to people to let them know that you can be trusted.