Getting too obsessed about learning something new about your latest crush is not wise right now. There are other people in your life, and frankly they deserve your time and energy more than this cutie does. Pay attention to the time-tested relationships in your life. New loves or even new friendships are exciting, but do they add anything more than a little bit of excitement to your life? Call up one of your oldest friends. Remind yourself why you cherish them in your life.