It’s fun to always have plans, but you may be running the risk of losing yourself in all the noise of socializing. Are you putting as much energy into yourself as you’re putting into your friendships? This is a hard question to contemplate because it brings up issues of selfishness. But you need to be honest with yourself and with the people who care about you. And if you need to do things for yourself without considering their needs, then you need to do that. They’ll understand.