If you’re trying to start a romance or push an existing one along a little bit faster, you need to remember that your agenda will move a lot further more quickly if you open up and speak honestly. Don’t try to trick or bribe someone into giving you more of their heart. Love doesn’t work that way. The good news is that this person is going to be receptive to the idea of kicking it up a notch, so you have nothing to lose by being vulnerable. Ask for what you want.