Despite your most fervent hopes and wishes, people do not do exactly what you want them to do. This is especially true in matters of the heart. If you are crushing on someone big time but they just don’t seem interested, you’ve got to let go and move on. Think of it this way: by wasting time with this person, you’re forcing the person who actually is perfect for you to wait longer than they have to! Moving on isn’t all about leaving someone behind. It’s about greeting your destiny.