No matter where you go, what the circumstances are, or why you happen to be there, more often than not you’re likely to be made the honorary principal and the financial officer. Most times you don’t mind. In fact, you often enjoy it. If this is one of those times when you don’t want to be on duty, bow out graciously. If you see a need, as usual, you’ll jump in and help. But for your own sake, take some time off.