Accidents are called accidents for a reason. They happen through no one person’s concerted efforts. They just happen. If you are involved in a fender bender or any other type of collision (real or metaphorical), avoid taking it personally. Things happen, and every time you can let the stress roll off of your back, you grow and learn. Of course, if you are in a situation where you know someone is working against you, you should feel free to unsheath your claws.