Trying to be perfect takes too much energy, so stop trying! You need to understand that just being yourself makes you much more desirable than you would be if you were trying to be someone else’s idea of a perfect person. Stick to your own identity. Not only is it simpler but it’s so much more fun! You’ll always be confident when you’re going by what you truly believe. When you try to guess what the “right” answer is, you end up getting into trouble.