Look back at recent events that caused a stir in your group and you’ll begin to notice some patterns. Someone has been consistently unreliable or unpredictable, and you need to point that out today, either to them or to someone who holds power over them. This isn’t tattling. This is problem solving, so don’t hesitate to share what you’ve noticed. It’s time for you to separate yourself a little bit from the people who are doing things in a way you don’t approve of.