It’s time to take another look at your calendar. Does it have too many holes in it? You can’t always wait for others to initiate something. Sure, it’s nice to always be at the top of everyone’s invite list, but that isn’t always possible or feasible. If you want people to think of you the next time they’re organizing a gathering, you need to invite them to ones that you put together. Even if they have to be online or outside, be more proactive about creating your own fun.