Take a second look at recent events and you’ll finally be able to see them for what they are. A little distance plus time can give you clarity. It’s not easy to be honest with yourself about the mistakes you’ve made in the past, but it’s the best way to grow. If in retrospect you see that you said or did something you regret, make amends today and apologize if necessary. Pretending everything is fine will only build walls between you and people you care about.