You can’t be perfect all the time, but you certainly can be good most of the time. Things aren’t either all bad or all good, so quit trying to reach perfection. It is wasting your energy, frustrating you, and, most importantly, keeping you from doing positive things. Just take it easy on yourself right now. You need to slow down and let go of a few things that you can’t control. Once you do, you’ll suddenly see all the areas where you can make a difference.